Your job is to connect the ward to the missionaries and the missionaries to the ward. You're the constant. Everyone else rotates.
Day One
Do These Five Things First
Get the missionaries' numbers and text them today.↗ send that text — "Hey, I'm [name], just called as Ward Mission Leader. Looking forward to working with you. When's a good time to meet this week?" That's it. Don't overthink it.
Get on the bishop's calendar for 15 minutes.church calendar ↗ You need to know: who's his counselor over missionary work, does the ward already have a coordination meeting, and what does he want from you.
Ask the missionaries if there's already a weekly coordination meeting. If yes, find out when and show up. If no, that's the first thing you set up — pick a time after sacrament meeting that works for everyone.
Find out if there's a ward mission coordinator — some wards have a member of the high priests or elders quorum in this support role. If so, loop them in immediately. They're your partner.
Get a list of who has been fellowshipping the missionaries' friends (or ask the missionaries). Even just two or three families. Add them to your fellowship list ↓ These are your most important contacts.
Your Role
What You Actually Are
You are the bridge between the full-time missionaries and the ward. Not their boss. Not a program manager. A bridge.
The missionaries find people and teach them. Your job is to make sure those people — the missionaries' friends, as the Church now calls them — have a warm place to land in the ward. Real friendships, a seat on Sunday, a family to have dinner with. Missionary discussions convert minds. Ward fellowship converts lives.
The missionaries rotate every 6–12 weeks. The ward's friends keep attending. You are the constant. If you don't create continuity across transfers, it resets every time a companionship leaves.
You're also the missionary advocate in Ward Council. When the bishop asks what the ward needs to do to support missionary work, that's your voice.
What You Don't Do
You don't do the missionaries' work for them
You don't run every activity or every fellowship visit yourself
You don't manage the missionaries' schedule or tell them where to go
You don't need to be the most outgoing person in the room — you just need to be reliable
Daily Rhythm
What You Do Every Day
This takes about five minutes.
Morning
A quick check-in with the missionaries. Not a report — just presence. ↗ send a quick text They'll get used to you being available, and they'll start texting you before you text them.
As needed
When something comes up — a visitor on Sunday, someone asking about the church, a member who'd be perfect for a fellowship assignment — act on it the same day. The window for action is short. A text to the right person takes 30 seconds.
Sunday
Watch for anyone unfamiliar at sacrament meeting. If someone comes who you don't know, introduce yourself and mention it to the missionaries. Don't let new faces walk out without being greeted.
You don't need to be in constant contact. The missionaries need to know you're available and that you follow through. Be reliably present, not constantly hovering.
Weekly Rhythm
What Happens Every Week
Sunday
Missionary coordination meeting. This is your most important weekly activity. See the Coordination Meeting section for exactly how this works.
Sunday
Ward Council (if your ward holds it weekly — many are bi-weekly). Bring 1–2 names with a specific need. See Ward Council below.
Any day
Follow through on whatever came out of coordination. If you said you'd ask a family to host the missionaries' friends for dinner Thursday, send that text Monday. Don't let it sit until Saturday.
Sunday
Missionary Meal Calendar. Every week, check that the coming week has families signed up for every night. If there are gaps, fill them before you leave the building — text a family, ask someone in the hallway, or post the link in the group text. The missionaries, especially the Sisters, shouldn't have to wonder whether they're eating dinner. This is a simple act of care that lands more than you'd expect.
Mid-week
Brief check-in with the missionaries. Not formal — just staying in their lane of awareness. "How did Tuesday's lesson go?" Two sentences.
Monthly Rhythm
What Happens Every Month
Monthly
Ward Mission Planning Meeting. This is a longer meeting — usually 30–60 minutes — with the bishop (or his counselor), you, possibly the EQ president and RS president, and the missionaries. You review the month: what's working, who's progressing, what does the ward need to do next month. Ask the bishop if this is already happening; if not, propose scheduling it.
Monthly
Check in with your fellowship families. Not to assign them something — just to thank them and stay connected. If someone is burning out, you want to know before they go quiet.
Transfer week
Missionary transfer debrief and onboarding. When missionaries leave, get a 20-minute debrief: who is mid-stream, what do they need, who in the ward is supporting them. When new missionaries arrive, meet them within 48 hours. Tell them who the fellowship families are and how this ward works. Don't wait for them to ask.
Who You Work With
Key Relationships
Full-Time Missionaries
Daily + Weekly Meeting
These are your primary partners. Stay in their awareness. Show up every week. Follow through on what you promise. They will reward consistency with trust.
Bishop / Counselor
Weekly brief + Monthly meeting
Know what he's focused on. Align your work to his vision. He has authority over missionary work in the ward — you support and execute it, not define it.
EQ President
As needed / monthly
New members and friends of the Church need connections in the quorum. The EQ president is your partner for that. Give him names. Be specific: "Can you personally introduce yourself to [name] this Sunday?"
RS President
As needed / monthly
New female members and friends need connection to the Relief Society. Same pattern: specific names, specific requests, not general asks.
Ward Mission Coordinator
Weekly if you have one
Some wards have a member in this supporting role. If yours does, they're your lieutenant. Loop them in on everything and give them ownership of specific families or tasks.
Fellowship Families
Situational + monthly check-in
You activate them when there's a specific need. You thank them regularly. You don't overuse them. See Fellowship Families.
Group Text
Who's on the Group Text
You probably need two separate threads:
Missionary Coordination Thread
You (WML)
Full-time missionaries (both companions)
Bishop's counselor over missionary work (or the bishop directly, depending on preference)
Ward mission coordinator, if your ward has one
This is your operational thread. Scheduling, quick updates, "someone visited church today and their name is __." Keep it focused.
Fellowship Family Thread(s)
You + specific families as needed
You might have one general thread if your fellowship network is small, or individual threads per family
Don't mix fellowship families into the missionary coordination thread. They have different roles and different levels of involvement.
Text is fine. Email is slow. The missionaries are almost always available by text. If something is time-sensitive, text. If it's a longer coordination item, bring it to the weekly meeting.
The Core Meeting
What Is the Missionary Coordination Meeting?
It's a weekly sit-down with the missionaries, usually right after sacrament meeting (20–30 minutes). This is the most important thing you do every week. If nothing else on this page happens, this happens.
Who Attends
You
The full-time missionaries
The bishop's counselor over missionary work (or bishop if he wants to come)
Ward mission coordinator if you have one
Start With Names — Not an Agenda
Don't open with a checklist. Open with names. Ask the missionaries: "Who are you working with right now?" Go through each person. Say their name out loud. Ask what's happening in their life. What do they need this week — not from the lessons, from the ward?
When you start with names, the Spirit can prompt. You might realize halfway through a name that you know exactly who in the ward needs to meet that person. The agenda builds itself from the names. An agenda that starts with programs will never get to the person hiding inside them.
This approach is grounded in the teaching of President Packer and Elder Renlund: no program is more important than any person. Start with names. Let the Spirit minister to you about each one.
What Comes Out of the Names
What does this person need from the ward this week? A home to visit, someone to sit with at church, a meal, a ride, a specific introduction.
Is anyone coming to church this Sunday? If yes — who's going to greet them, sit with them, make sure they don't walk out feeling invisible?
Any upcoming lessons where a member's presence would help?
Anything from last week that still needs follow-through?
What You Do After
Same day: send any texts or make any calls that came out of the meeting. Don't let it wait. The whole point of the meeting is to produce action. If you leave and nothing happens until next Sunday, the meeting was a planning exercise, not a coordination meeting.
If your ward doesn't have a coordination meeting yet, you start one. Ask the bishop, get approval, then text the missionaries: "Can we do a quick coordination meeting after sacrament meeting on Sundays? 20–30 minutes. I want to make sure you have what you need from the ward." They will say yes.
Fellowship Families
What They Are and How to Build the Network
A fellowship family is a ward member or family who is willing to open their home and their friendship to people who are meeting with the missionaries. That's it. They don't need to be scriptorians. They don't need to give a lesson. They just need to be genuinely warm and not weird about it.
What to Look For
They've done it before and didn't have to be convinced
They can be around people who aren't members without making it awkward
They follow up on their own — they don't wait for you to assign them
They understand that their job is friendship, not conversion
How to Build the List
Start by asking the missionaries: "Who are the families you call when you need a home to visit?" Write those names down.
Ask the EQ and RS presidents: "Who in the quorum/relief society would be great at this?"
Invite people directly. Most people who'd be great at this are just waiting to be asked. "We need families who can be a warm presence for people the missionaries are working with. I think you'd be great at it. Would you be willing to be one of our go-to families?"
How to Use Them Without Burning Them Out
Don't call the same family every week
Rotate. Build a list of 5–8 families so no one carries too much
Thank them specifically, not generically
Check in monthly even when you don't need anything
Ward Council
What You Bring to Ward Council
Ward Council is where the bishop coordinates the whole ward. You represent missionary work at that table. Your job is not to give a status report — it's to bring specific needs and make specific requests.
What Works
"The Smiths are coming to church for the first time this Sunday. Can the EQ president make sure someone sits with Brother Smith?"
"Maria has been coming for a few weeks but she doesn't know anyone her age yet. Does anyone know a sister in her 30s who could reach out?"
"The missionaries have a family they're working with who speaks Spanish. Who in the ward can help with that?"
What Doesn't Work
"We need the ward to be more missionary-minded." (Too vague. Nobody knows what to do with it.)
Long updates about the missionary program in general
Asking for volunteers without a specific task and timeline
One or two names with a specific ask. Every time. The ward council will learn to expect it from you and it will become productive.
Going Further
How to Magnify This Calling
The basics above will make you a solid WML. Here's what separates a solid WML from an exceptional one:
Lead with names, always. Know every friend's name — not just the ones close to baptism. When you open a meeting, a prayer, or a conversation with a name rather than an agenda item, you invite the Spirit to work differently. The agenda builds itself from the names. President Packer and Elder Renlund both taught it plainly: no program is more important than any person.
Own the transfer transitions. The missionaries will forget to brief you on everything. You ask. You get the notes. You make sure momentum doesn't reset. You are the institutional memory of the missionary work in this ward — not the missionaries.
Act on Sunday visitors the same day. Text a ward member before you leave the parking lot. "Hey — a family came today, [name]. They live on your street. Any chance you could reach out this week?" You have maybe 72 hours before the moment is gone.
Build the culture, not just the activity. The goal isn't more events — it's that ward members naturally think to invite their neighbors, naturally welcome newcomers, naturally tell the missionaries when something's happening. You build that by modeling it and celebrating it publicly when it happens.
Don't be the bottleneck. The worst version of this calling is where everything flows through you and stops when you're unavailable. Build relationships between ward members and missionaries directly. Your job is to start those connections, not to be the middleman for every one.
You will figure most of this out as you go. The missionaries will teach you what they need. The ward will show you where the openings are. Show up every week. Follow through on what you say you'll do. That alone puts you in the top 20% of WMLs.